Hmmm. Salamat at nakapag, desisyon ka. Pero ang pinaka-unang problema mo ay kung sino ang un among pagsasabihan , Tama?
May mga oras at panahaon na na masasaya maliban sa araw mismo ng kasal, ang panahon kung saan parang sasabog ka sa saya at parang gusto mo mag.cebelbrate sa CF. Sa sobrang sa saya parang gusto mong sumigaw at tumakbong nkahubad at sisgaw ng, "Todo na to!" kung pwede nkasulat pa sa ung dibdib. Pero may konting problema na asungot. At yun , ay ang title ng topic ko.Kids Come First
Kung sakaling may anak ang isa sa inyo cguro sla ang unahin nyo, sila dapat – bago kay ermat at rpat. And you know the reasons, they don’t have any pang.unawa. Giv them, reverse psych,, effective you know. Kung pwede pasyal kau kasama sila – and don’t forget the more the merrier. If d pa kaya, hintay lng ng tamang tyempo.Parents or Pals?
Maybe dpende sa sitwasyon. Kung di pwede ky dad and mom, ky bff muna. At kung ok na(wala nmn sila choice eh) the dun na ky parents; kasi nga may back up approva na. Pag di mo sbhin kay parents kung anu man rason mo, text them or sulat kaya with signature. And that’s all—new beginning at the words may spread.Immediate Family
Sa mtatanda, si parents tlga dpat, kung gusto mo lng nmn ng pormal, si bride's parents ang unahin. At nkakasalalay ito dun sa unang mga advises, kung panu mo pinakilala si bf or si gf, at kun sla ba matutuwa o mshockwave .Maliban lng kung close na sila(as in fc), at pinkamgandang timing ay tyempo(kuha mo?), ung maluwag sa sarili nila at feel at home kung bga. At huwag mag beso-beso if not needed(lead to sarcasm). At gusto nila, keber, tell them together. Invite all, or sasunod na nmn na araw para may thrill. In a fairy tale, matutuwa sila at mhwuhugs , crying with joy, huhuhu. (Of course, if you get engaged on a trip or live far apart may be sinadya, for God sake, gamitin ang TODO CALLL!)
If di nmn alam ni parents ang planu mo sa buhay, this is the perfect time to visit home, pero wag yung one-and-only and announcing your plan on the same day. Mas mabuti maghintay until sa next visit. If the situation is prssured or boring sa life a bahay at sa excited, it's A-OK to go solo when telling your parents about your plan; in fact, they may appreciate your maturity.
You can break the news without partner if your parents are less than in love with with the love of your life(complicated parents ba), are overprotective(my case), have concerns about religious or cultural differences(mao ni),TRAUMATICthat is have seen you go through one (or two or three) messy divorce(s), or are otherwise opposed to the idea of you getting married(kill youself son). Telling them solo means you'll be able to have it out openly(actor ka bai), without dragging your beloved through unnecessary and unpleasant stress and disappointment (I hear ringing bells).
After you've told family and friends, you still need to tell acquaintances, but the problem is out of the way. Your next assignment? Enjoy your time and smile!
My simple ideas.
1. Use facebook power. It’s free.
2. Play with the tsismosas.
3. Type ASTIGTXT10 send to 8888.
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